After we finally got through the ear infections and the tubes and any other ridiculous excuse I could think of to prolong it, I decided this was the weekend. We were taking Ava off both the binky and the bottle. Cold turkey. The bottle was a breeze, she's been getting tired of the slow food delivery system for about a week now. She hasn't seemed to miss it one bit.
The binky on the other hand, has been a full on battle. I have never seen a child so pissed off. I can only imagine that giving up the pacifier is akin to giving up smoking for a baby. And her teachers at daycare keep telling me, "But she's your baby! Why the rush? They grow up too fast anyhow." I see that point, but it wasn't until we were having drinks with some of Jody's coworkers on Friday, and one of the ladies mentioned that she and her husband were probably more attached to the binky than their daughter. Translation: it makes Mom & Dad's life easier, not necessarily the kid's. This statement hit home with a huge thud, and I realized it's now or never. Plus I know a lady with a soon to be five-year-old who still walks around with a pacifier plugged in a lot of the time. She too holds onto the "but it's my baby," mentality, and it irritates the hell out of me.
So, here we are, day two of cold turkey for Ms. Ava. She's really only given us hell for one of her naps each day, which is sort of good, because she is so tired by bedtime she just doesn't have much steam left to fight it.
Snacking on some Cheerios with her big-girl cup.
See? She's still a well-adjusted kid without a rubber nipple in her mouth!
Ta-da! She is starting to get better at managing it solo too!
I know they grow too fast, but I'm really feeling good about our decision to forge into this territory early. Also, I'm up for any suggestions to make the transition easier, this is my first rodeo in this department. Taylor gave up the pacifier on her own, opting instead for her thumb (which she still sucks like a fiend). Let me know how to wage war on that battle without having to cut off her thumbs and I'll buy you dinner.


